Early life and family
Letitia MacTavish Hargrave was born into a prominent Scottish family in Edinburgh in 1813. The eldest child of Dugald MacTavish and Letitia Lockhart, she was the first of nine children; Florence, Mary, William, Dugald, John George, Lockhart, Hector, and Alexander, followed her.
Born into a wealthy family—as the elder Dugald was Chief Judge of the local county—Letitia was given the best education available to women at the time, with her and her sisters—Florence and Mary—finishing their education at a ladies’ finishing school. Letitia would develop strong relationships with her two sisters. The MacTavish family would enjoy an upper-class life while growing into adulthood.
The already prominent family was given further opportunity through the children's uncle, John George MacTavish who, through his connections as an officer in the Hudson's Bay Company, convinced the eldest brothers, William and Dugald, to join the HBC in British North America (BNA). The nine MacTavish children would eventually part ways and emigrate around the world.
Marriage to James Hargrave
As Letitia MacTavish's brother William experienced great political success in the HBC, he was introduced to one James Hargrave, a Chief Trader based in Rupert's Land.
James Hargrave (1798–1865) was a Scottish expat living in British North America at this time. Coming from a wealthy family with deep roots in Scotland, James was well-read, well educated and well connected. Much of the Hargrave family eventually emigrated to BNA in 1819–1820.[3] James Hargrave joined the North-West Company following his emigration and came under the tutelage of John George MacTavish. The union between the North-West Company and the HBC led the two to be folded into the new company, being stationed at York Factory in Rupert's Land.
James Hargrave returned to Britain on medical leave in 1837 where—at the behest of his good friend, William MacTavish—he visited the MacTavish family. James met Letitia MacTavish in the early months of 1838 and very quickly intended to marry her. They would marry on 8 January 1840, where they would remain in Scotland until late April.
Following their marriage, Letitia and James Hargrave were invited to stay with sir George Simpson, Governor-in-Chief of the Hudson's Bay Company, in his home in London. The couple would remain in Britain until the summer of 1840.
In Rupert's Land
James and Letitia Hargrave embarked from Britain to the New World in 1840. The particularly rough voyage (for a well-to-do Scottish Lady) in a Hudson's Bay Company cargo ship caused a fair bit of discontent for the young Mrs. Hargrave, and the subsequent dramatic change in the way of life at York Factory were the first obstacles in forging a new life in Rupert's Land.[6]
York Factory, located in the far Northern expanse of modern-day Manitoba, was a major trading post for the Hudson's Bay Company. At the mouth of the Hayes River, the trading post gave access to the vast waterways protruding from the Hudson's Bay throughout the Northwest.
This was the new, rugged home of Letitia MacTavish Hargrave. The Hargraves essentially had full control over a district "more than twice the size of Great Britain". Letitia's experiences in adapting from a socialite life in Britain to that of an important woman on the frontier is the source of many of the compiled letters attributed to her, in which she describes life in the frozen wastes of the North and her dealings with fellow trader's wives, the local indigenous peoples and the dramatic weather.
Making the most of her situation, Letitia held on to the societal and material comforts to which she was accustomed, wearing elaborate, beautiful gowns and retaining a host of servants in the manor in which they lived. Letitia adapted quite effortlessly to the new world in which she lived by holding on to the lifestyle to which she was accustomed, approaching life with a fair bit of optimism.
Letitia, as the only permanent white female resident at York Factory, enjoyed a life of privilege and reverence from the native inhabitants of the settlement, developing unique relationships with local "Squaw" women, who referred to her as a Chieftainess in their own language.[6]
The Hargraves would spend the next ten years at York Factory, bearing four children (Joseph James, Letitia Lockhart, Mary Jane, Dugald John) and bringing future scholars a unique perspective to the frontier.
The welfare of her young family was the prime concern for Letitia Hargrave in York Factory. The birth of Joseph James in 1841 and the subsequent persuasion of her husband to build a nursery began this focus on the new generation of Hargrave children. In early December 1842, the Hargraves welcomed a second son into the world, to which the child unfortunately died after an undisclosed illness on 27 December 1842. Despondent, Letitia remained in the manor, overcome with grief, for several weeks. The Hargraves had refrained from having more children until, on 24 October 1844, they gave birth to a daughter, Letitia Lockhart who was much beloved by her mother.
In 1846, the Hargraves returned to Britain, mainly due to Letitia's declining health. The family remained in Edinburgh for Letitia's recovery until the following year, in which they separated from their son, Joseph James, so he could receive an education. The rest of the Hargraves returned to York Factory in 1847. The Hargraves had another daughter, Mary Jane, on 11 July 1848 in York Factory.
The next two years saw a decline in the overall well-being of James Hargrave, as stress and age were putting strain on the family. In the fall of 1850, James received orders from the HBC to transfer to the trading post at Sault Ste. Marie, a much more livable area of Rupert's Land. James left for Sault Ste. Marie in 1851, after securing his family's return to Britain, where Letitia enrolled her daughter Letitia Lockhart in school in Edinburgh with Joseph James.[6] The Elder Letitia would not be reunited with James until the following summer.[6]